Kisses From

November 23rd, 2009 admin Leave a comment Go to comments

Kisses From

Men - Learn How to Kiss in 3 Minutes or Less

The art of giving a woman a great kiss isn’t something you’re born into. I’ve yet to meet a guy who gave the first girl he kissed in his life an great kiss. Learning how to kiss in such a way that her entire body feels electrified is a skill that’s cultivated over time and experience. Some of the most important lessons I’ve learned over the years are the timing of the initial kiss, discovering what is her fantasy kiss, and creating a sexually charged moment for the kiss.

The first kiss is a big step in any relationship. The first kiss tells her a lot about you: How comfortable with her are you? How confident do you feel with her? How comfortable are you with your desires? Based on how you kiss, she’ll even come up with ideas on how you are in bed.

On top of that, the initial kiss also sets a tone for the rest of the relationship Did the kiss feel tense and robotic? Or does it feel sensual, sexual, and natural? Her first kiss with you is her first impression of what sexual contact with this person is like, and like all first impressions they affect the rest of the relationship.

While you’re first exploring how to kiss, there are two key points to get regarding the intial kiss: Kiss your partner as soon as you can, and to generate as much sexual energy as you can. (Which we’ll go over in a moment.)

Kissing her sooner rather than later generates a more spontaneous feel. The longer you hold it off, the more she feels like she’s in a ”dating process”, rather than being in an interaction where the two of you are just interested in each other. Kissing her early also speeds up the pace for a faster and more spontaneous relationship. How soon you kiss her affects how quickly the rest of the relationship will follow.

One other key lesson in improving in how to kiss is the art of reading out how she wants to be kissed. Every woman has an idea in her mind of what her ideal kiss is – Some enjoy a lot of tongue, other women prefer a soft and sensual kiss, while some other women prefer to be pressed up her back and feel completely controlled by the man she’s with.

One large part of learning how to kiss is figuring out her style of the best kiss and giving her just that. Only by doing this smoothly will you get comments like “Oh my god, that was an amazing kiss.”

And last but not least, develop to skill of being able to create a sexually charged moment when you kiss her. Women dream of the moment when their heartbeat quickens, their cheeks turn red, and everyone else in the room can feel that charged energy. A big part of learning how to kiss with that sexual energy is about you conveying your desire for her, non-verbally.

Those few key factors are just some of the things you should learn in learning how to kiss. More kissing skills you can learn include creating variety in the relationship, making her feel warm and taken care of, and several others are also skills that come into play when you’re giving a woman a great kiss.

Jack/Ianto kisses from the whole series (SPOILERS FOR COE)